What to Share with Your Accountability Partner

What to Share with Your Accountability Partner

How much do you share with your trusted partner? That depends on who the partner is, the level of accountability you want, and what you are seeking accountability for. Who Is the Partner? You should desire to seek accountability for every aspect of your life. If you are married, you should be transparent with your spouse about all matters. Keeping secrets in marriage tends toward disharmony, suspicion, arguments, and worse. Instead, seek open, honest communication with your spouse to build intimacy ... Read More
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3 Things You Are Not Accountable For

3 Things You Are Not Accountable For

You are accountable for your choices and actions. But, is there anything that you are not accountable for? Yes, of course. Here are three things that you are not accountable for: Other People You are not responsible for other people’s choices and actions or even what they think of you. Certainly, you are responsible for how you interact with and influence other people. And you should desire to live at peace with others and to be a blessing to them. Sadly, while you might ... Read More
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Should My Spouse Be My Accountability Partner?

Should My Spouse Be My Accountability Partner?

If you are married, you will especially want to be open with your spouse. Keeping secrets in marriage tends toward disharmony, suspicion, arguments, and worse. Instead, seek open, honest communication with your spouse to build intimacy and trust. If you are intentionally and successfully pursuing purity, then it may be natural and beneficial that your spouse serves as your formal accountability partner. Are you struggling and often losing this battle with impurity? Is your spouse aware of your failures? Then it ... Read More
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5 Features of Accountability

5 Benefits of Accountability

Accountability can greatly benefit those who practice it regularly. Working with trusted partners brings greater success in accomplishing your goals. Consider how these five features of accountability can benefit you: 1. Living Deliberately Accountability is an attitude, a willingness, a state of mind. It is a desire to live intentionally—correcting errors and moving forward. It is welcomed by those who want to grow and change. An accountable person acknowledges that progress often comes less from instant cures and more through a steady journey. 2. Demonstrating ... Read More
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3 Ways to Benefit for Those Seeking Change

3 Keys to Make Accountability Work for You

How can you benefit from accountability? You have made a commitment to improving yourself. This means that you have work to do on yourself. You are not there yet, but you want to be. What are some key attitudes and actions you must have to improve with accountability? Humble Yourself. It takes humility to commit to change. You have already acknowledged that you are not perfect, so continue to admit your failings and faults. Recognize your shortcomings and fix them. You have asked someone ... Read More
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Taking Sin and Grace Seriously

Taking Sin and Grace Seriously

As an accountability partner, you need to take sin and grace seriously. That is, you need to know when to confront and rebuke sin and when to show grace and give hope. Your partner will have successes and failures along the way. When there are failures, where is the balance between taking sin seriously and taking grace seriously? Seek Your Partner’s Best Interests Before you decide how to respond, remember that you should act in the best interests of your partner. How ... Read More
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How Responsibility and Accountability Work Together

How Responsibility and Accountability Work Together

The terms responsibility and accountability have at least two related but distinct meanings: being accountable and taking responsibility. 1. Being Accountable Both words have the root idea of giving an account of yourself in response to someone else. They refer to your ability to answer others and explain your choices and actions. Sometimes you voluntarily give an account of yourself to others. You do this when you ask someone to be an accountability partner. There are other times when you owe an ... Read More
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Accountability Starts With You

Accountability Starts With You

Accountability can help you succeed. But you have to personally recognize and desire the benefits that it can bring to you. Why should you desire accountability? Because it allows you several advantages. With accountability, you can Demonstrate your integrity and excellence to those you love and respect. Avoid wandering toward bad things or merely wasting time. Build camaraderie with your partner. Evaluate your choices, motives, and actions. Keep humble while avoiding humiliation from failure. Receive the help others want to provide. Invite strategic feedback from your trusted ... Read More
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7 Dangers Accountability Partners Should Avoid

7 Dangers Accountability Partners Should Avoid

As an accountability partner, you can play a key role in helping your partner succeed. But take care to avoid these seven dangers: 1. Doing the Work for Your Partner Avoid the tendency to want to take over your partner’s plan and fix things. Let your partner make choices and take actions, being responsible for any change that may or may not happen. This is their work, so cheer them on when they succeed and challenge them when they stumble. 2. Opposing ... Read More
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4 Levels of Accountability

4 Levels of Accountability

Accountability often occurs informally during daily life, but sometimes it is helpful to have a more strategic arrangement. Ultimately you will want to establish consistency between what you have said you would do and what you are doing. You can seek any combination of these four levels of accountability: 1 Be Observed. Passive 2 Report Your Status. Active 3 Be Evaluated. Passive 4 Explain Yourself. Active Let’s learn more about each level. 1. Be Observed. Your performance of simple tasks tends to improve if you know someone is watching. In a ... Read More
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